I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that's six years older, is that wrong?

I'm 15 now. My boyfriend was 20. We started dating when I was 14 and he was 20. He didn't push me into anything I didn't want to do. And I think he genuinely didn't want sex. He told me he loved me and when I said that it wasn't going to work because it was long distance he cried for 3 hours on the phone to me. He flew over on a plane and proposed to me and said we should get married as soon as I could. He still didn't know what he wanted. We aren't together anymore as I thought I should focus on work and setting up my own life. Every day I think of him and everyday he sends me an e-mail telling me he loves me. If it works for you, do it. I regret my choices in lots of ways.

Age is nothen but a number ,  but how long exacley have you been with him?, ( just wondering) ,  and reguardless of age I think anyone could have a relationship together but since the ages are so far apart it will be hard to be together like he may want to party and you are young so ofcourse you can't tag along` :(  but if hes willing to work on you and him and if you are too then nothen will get between you two. Hope everything goes good between you two :)
____  BUT NEVER `  have him take advantage of you !!

Very wrong !!! He's an adult hunny, trust me. He wants to do things to you that NO 14 year old should ever do. So love, I would end this relationship. He is sub a perv. That's nasty. Trust me, what is a 20 year old man Doing with a 14 year old little girl,? He wants sex. So end it before something goes wrong.

He's an adult and you are a child. There's something wrong with that.

Anaelie,this is concerning for me. You are still classed as a minor, and your boyfriend is an adult. People could look at this and perceive that this guy is grooming you!

I really don't want to sound harsh or hurt your feelings, but I don't think you should be involved with this guy. To me it just screams alarm bells, and I'm worried that he is going to take advantage of you and force you into a bad situation. What would your parents think if they found out that you are dating this man and he does something to hurt you?

I know the decision is ultimately yours, and I do want you to be happy, but please, please ,PLEASE, be careful. I know in some respects age should not matter, but because you are classed as a minor, this is potentially a risk. I would like to suggest that you at least tell your family about him, maybe even your closest friends, and be honest with them about this guy. Like I said, it is ultimately down to you, but please stay safe. And don't let him push you into anything you don't feel comfortable with. X

Your fourteen? And you have a twenty year old boyfriend? Something is wrong here. Find someone thats in your grade or in your school. It's a little going over board going out with a twenty year old...don't cha think?
However I know somebody that is 40? And is married to a 35 year old.  I think that you should NOT be dating a twenty year old ...

Uh...how long have you been a thing cause its not technically wrong unles you guys are...you know...I'm just a little shocked thats its workin out givin the difference. Cause I mean 6 years isn't too big of a difference when your say 20 and 26 but but 14 and 20 is a little...out there

No. Love knows no age. Just remember your limitations. You are still young.

I think that is wrong....you are complete jail bate....do your parents know??? They could press changes if they found out!! I would!!! Don't take this wrong but your a child in your parents house in school, hes  a young man with a job paying bills!!

Just think about it...is he asking you to do anything like move away or anything if so then you need to get out before it's too late otherwise I think its ok just be careful though!!