How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Spend More Time With Me?

I wouldn't worry much hes told you that he is with family and that you might not see him a few days but that he still loves you,right now hes needed because of illness,and you want him because.....hes not spending enough time with you guys view this as needy and clingy,he needs you to be strong so when he does come to you he can get that extra dose of strength and continue to be there for his mom and his aunt,just knowing you are still there and understanding helps him more than you know.I would never make someone feel guilty,because little be told that is a form of passive agressive control,to make another feel obligated to you.were he your husband I would be giving you another answer.

I think he should know when its time for you, you his aunt might be ill but there is always time for you and if he doesn't know that then you need to let him know.But, I wouldn't get mad the only way I would get mad is if he doesn't spend time wit you after you talk to him.  Well Good luck :)

I'm kinda having the same issue, My boyfriend actually lost his father a year ago, and I started dating him a 5 months ago. And I love him a lot, but he is always at his moms now and can always make it to see me! And were long distance as it is anyway. He loves me thats what he says... He calls me every night though so I don't have that issue, but I'm acutally giving him a break right now and letting him think about the good woman that he did have. And actually I think he is going to realize what he lost.

Maybe you can join him when he is visiting his family. You can offer your help to them if needed.

If it really is a family illness perhaps he needs the time with them.  Usually the guy wants his girlfriend there by his side to help give him emotional support.  If he is afraid to share his feelings he may not want you to see him hurting.  Give him some time to work through it all.  Do tell him that you are concerned but that you will be there for him when he needs you.

You can stop calling him for a few days so his mind will start wondering why shes not calling?coz in my opinion..sorry to say hat..his aunts sickness is just an excuse for him to have
some space..and believe me..once you ignore him his mind and heart will start searching for you.....don't be toooooooo good..coz guys are not attracted to very very miss perfectly
good sweety girls,ask about his aunt frm time to time and ask him if he needs help..but try to make short speaches..be kind but not very kind.

Make him feel guilty.. That's what my girlfriend does, and it works. Lol

Ask to help with his aunt

My boyfriend spend his free time playing book of ra slot online. But I love him. :)

Say that if he doesn't spend more time with you then you will dump him but break it to him slowly

If his family is having a crisis, then you need to be patient with him. Let him know that you are there for him. If this goes on for a while, then I might get the idea, that he was ready to move on, and would let him go.