Ok, I hate to be the wet blanket on your party, but there are some very real things you need to understand.
You are 15 years of age. That makes you a minor, and as much as you may want to be in an adult relationship, you are not prepared to deal with the emotional issues involved in an adult relationship, and even more importantly, you don't have the legal right to decide to do so.
Now I know that may suck, but there are solid reasons for it, but we don't need to get into them here. Instead, you should think of this: A sexual relationship with a minor, when discovered, will do several things to your biology teacher:
Now I know these sound awfully extreme, and perhaps they are in your case, but... As far as the law is concerned, if (or when) your relationship is discovered (and all it takes is a witness to another of your kisses), I have not exaggerated at all.
So even if you think this is the best thing that could happen to you right now, think about how his life will be ruined, and decide from there if a little fun now is worth watching his life destroyed later.
If it is, then you don't really care about him, just the excitement of a little illicit sex.
I know you want to be a grown-up, but you aren't, and the closest you can come to showing just how mature you are and can be, is to end this relationship NOW, before the two of you do something that cannot be undone, and whose repercussions can last a lifetime.
Please think long and hard about this... I just hope you do the right thing, and have nothing to regret in the future.
I wish you all the best, and hope I've given you some things to think about...
You are 15 years of age. That makes you a minor, and as much as you may want to be in an adult relationship, you are not prepared to deal with the emotional issues involved in an adult relationship, and even more importantly, you don't have the legal right to decide to do so.
Now I know that may suck, but there are solid reasons for it, but we don't need to get into them here. Instead, you should think of this: A sexual relationship with a minor, when discovered, will do several things to your biology teacher:
- It will gain him a criminal record. Sexual contact with a minor is no longer considered a slap on the wrist issue, and is no longer called 'statutory rape'. In most states, it's called 'Rape of a Child in the 3rd degree' (at least in your case, since you're over 12), and carries SEVERE penalties, including imprisonment, stiff penalties, and a requirement to register as a sex offender, usually for a minimum of 10 years.
- He will lose his job. In many (if not most) he will lose his teaching license altogether. And as a registered sex offender he will not be allowed to work as a teacher because it would put him in contact with other minors, which is forbidden by law.
- His name and face will be plastered all over your local television station, as they report on the offense after it is uncovered. This will shatter his life, and he will probably need to move to a totally different city, possibly state (if he is allowed to) where he will be considered to be just as bad as rapists, and child molesters (considering that by law, that's exactly what he'll be guilty of), and will be vilified, and possibly even attacked by his neighbors (and possibly constantly harassed by local law enforcement). And he may have to move again, if the city he moves into is small enough and they decide to change local ordinances to make it so that there is nowhere in the city where he is allowed to live (don't think I'm kidding, it's happened before).
- There's a pretty good chance YOUR name will be leaked, and you may find yourself the focus of slander and personal attacks (such as being labeled a 'slut' or 'whore'), and if you get pregnant, your child will always have the taint of having been conceived under an illegal act....
Now I know these sound awfully extreme, and perhaps they are in your case, but... As far as the law is concerned, if (or when) your relationship is discovered (and all it takes is a witness to another of your kisses), I have not exaggerated at all.
So even if you think this is the best thing that could happen to you right now, think about how his life will be ruined, and decide from there if a little fun now is worth watching his life destroyed later.
If it is, then you don't really care about him, just the excitement of a little illicit sex.
I know you want to be a grown-up, but you aren't, and the closest you can come to showing just how mature you are and can be, is to end this relationship NOW, before the two of you do something that cannot be undone, and whose repercussions can last a lifetime.
Please think long and hard about this... I just hope you do the right thing, and have nothing to regret in the future.
I wish you all the best, and hope I've given you some things to think about...
