My Girlfriend Shows Me No Affection. What Can I Do To Change That?

Your girlfriend is affraid to get close and give you her true self because she is affraid that if she does you will pull away.
Its a self esteem issue.  She was proabably hurt in the past.

Ok. Like babymai said it will take time. I think that you should talk to her. Some people get really nervous because she must really like you.you need to see it from her perspective and understand that she might not be ready for it. And the whole kiss thing girls are really sensitive about that and they don't just want to  happen they want it to be special, but you have to make her comfortable around you.

WoW this is odd usually its the girl yearning for affection lol I wish my boyfriend was like you. Maybe she just doesn't feel the same way about you or she just may not be that type of person. If this doesn't change I would move on because shes just going to seem boring to you after awhile.

Whenever you see the littlest bit of affection from her praise her for it
let her know how much you love it when she shows you love ! maybe she doesn't realize how shes making you feel and you could help her to by talking with her, if she really cares then she'll value what you say to her

Well if she does not want to she does not want to... But I think that you should make the first move and just kiss her girls like guys who are brave and if that does not work  try getting her in the mood you can hold her hand cuddle with her or just tell her how much this is important to you so go for it already time is running out...

My girlfriend of 5months says she loves me I shower her with love and romantic things all the time..one minute she is onboard next she says she feels like she can't give me the relationship I desire...I talk to her about it and she says we spend more time talking about it and no time just being in the relationship..I'm 43 she is 38...she has been hurt badly but we talked about all this early on..we were intimate like mad for awhile now its maybe once a wk if I instigated it..but when were around friends she acts like we are so sexual..I am very affectionate to me she seems to of lost the spark she says I'm crazy and life gets back to normal..we do not live together..she is home visiting family and has been gone for four days and has called once but checks her Facebook daily...pretty bummer about this if I bring it up its all me being ridiculous and needy..she says she is committed to me and loves...what's the deal

Aaww... Will you be mine?
Well sometimes people are like that. You'll have to give it time. For us girls, some of us wants to be cuddly with our man but he's not cuddly. We have to give it time and eventually he/she will come up to us and hold us for a minute or two. As the timing goes the hugs will grow longer.
For me, I've been married for 12 years and my cuddling days are over*sniffles*. It's only... *hugs*"honely I'm home"....*hugs*"honey I'm leaving to work"..... And really BIG *HUGS*"I miss you". I guess we did it so much when we were young right now it's just whatever.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't rush it and let it spread through your years of relationship too.

Ive been in a relationship for almost three years. Everything was so good, he was so affection and sex was great now I don't even get a KISS that often. Then when weeks go by he tries to be affectionant it got to the point I went so long without affection when he tries weeks later I don't want it I'm losing it for him I gave so much and did this for years and now I'm so used to not getting any affection I don't want it this is only going to make things worse

  this is the truth of life buddy & its sometimes hard when your young. She doesn't really like you .and don't let her tell you anything else because shes lying. Find a new girlfriend fast!

I don't think she really loves you...When you love someone you'd be so keen on to show him how much you care about him/her..but at this rate there's nothing but..a take away experience or she might need you on something until it's done it's done

Tell her how you feel and let her know that you want to show her that you care for her simply through a hug... That would make any girl want to give you a hug! :)

I find myself in the same position and never thought I would be searching this stuff on Google. It is a harsh reality, it is one of those things that can just carry on and get you nowhere.  As hard as you think it might be, you do have to stand up for yourself, take control and tell that it affecting you and that you want to move things forward with her.

Women do not like men that are not confident!

If you show more to her than she will return it back

No, Don't waste your time to watch yourself under pressure. Love the one who loves you, If she still loves, So There's no need to break up, But if she doesn't, Then No need to continue the relation. Try to test her and read her mind and plans.

My girlfriend is the same.  She says that it is "obvious" we are together but she would like to downplay and hide our relationship.  I am waiting in purgatory until the harvest.

Find  a  girl  who  will  show  you  affection or  speak  up  and tell her  how you  feel  ..Theres got  to be  communication  to  make  things work

Remember this. The guys are the boss. You can kiss and hug her and say I love you. My boyfriend did the same. He ignored me.  but he kept realising that I loved him when I kept kissing him and saying that I loved him. Now he loves me.