Hey, I'm a deep brunette~nearly jet black. It just seems that blonde people stand out, get more attention, guys like them better, they seem to have more fun in life and people are happier around them. Where as boring brunettes seem to just blend into the background. Smart dependable romantic true, wifey, who cares about that boring ass shit man. This is why some brunettes get jealous and insecure around blonde girls. I do get insecure. But I don't hate or get angry at blonde people for no reason, I do feel terribly, terribly inadequate around them. Both physically and socially. Because they seem to make everybody's heads turn and have everybody's attention. But that's my problem. Not the blonde person's fault. All the best, a brunette.
I am a female and I was naturally blonde - a good light blonde. I have been dying my dark brown for a long time now because I actually get more attention as a brunette than I did as blonde. Sometimes certain hair colors don't work for a persons complexion. My dark hair also makes my eyes stand out more, and I am way more confident as a brunette than a blonde. Maybe I'm one in a million, I don't know. And blonde girls don't drive me crazy, girls who act incompetent drive me crazy. I am a confident brunette and btw I'm not the only blonde who went brunette.
You know thats not true at all. There really are a lot of blondes that dye their hair darker, and brunettes are not jealous of blondes, sometimes you blondes make us brunettes feel insecure because of how much better you think you are than us. I never thought that blondes were prettier but because of some blondes thinking that they're so much better than us brunettes made me feel insecure about myself, but now I'm stronger and feel much better about being a brunette. And blondes aren't that rare, a lot of you natural blondes think you're so rare, and it really depends on where you live, and where I live there are just as many blondes as there are brunettes, and there are plenty of blondes I know that have dyed their hair darker, in fact I kno more blondes that dyed their hair brown then brunettes dying their hair blonde. I'm not saying I hate blondes, but I hate a lot of their attitudes, and us brunettes are not jealous of you, you just wish we were!!
I'm a Brunette girl, but I'm not jealous of blondes. Sometimes yes I do feel insecure by some blondes. But what gets me is that ever sexy, smart, kind, amazing girls on a Tv/Game/Book/Comic seems to be blonde. (Not saying that every one is blonde, I've seen a lot that ain't.) Sometimes, I see blondes using the excuse, "I'm blonde! I can't help it" when they do something stupid. Then I hear the one about Brunettes are always smart and intelligent, but we do stupid things just like everyone else. Sometimes Blondes just act like they are better since you got Television and all that good stuff, implying that blondes are. But then you got some brunettes acting like they are super smart cause of Television too. So really it's just a stereotyping on both hair colors. I actually got good friends who are blonde and are amazing friends. (and for guys I prefer them blonde.)
Well, I'm a reasonably attractive blonde, and Brunette's hate me. I'm not a bitch, I'm not nasty, I don't act snooty, I don't think me being blonde make me better than anyone. However, I've lost count of how many times complete strangers/brunette girls have made some sort of comment or gave me the death glare. Often, if a young couple passes me, the brunette girl will point me out to her boyfriend and start laughing nervously, before throwing herself all over him, like some sort of weird self conscious ritual. "hey a blonde! I'm so insecure, I'm going to point her out and mock her, before validating my boyfriend's impression of me by reminding him I can be sexy too! Because blonds make me feel inferior." So so many of them around. I've never had any grief or weird behavior from other fellow blonds, or redheads, or any other colour. It's sad. I don't like blonde stereotypes and I don't play up to them. But I'm getting fed up of jealous, insecure brunettes. Brunettes can look great! And if they're jealous, just go and dye it! Simple.
Any hair color is beautiful!!! I think the tones within brunette hair can be accentuated to create a unique color with a gorgeous spectrum of brown, red, gold, auburn, or blue black!!!! Blonde hair has its own tones and beauty and so does brunette. No color should be prettier than another and each woman is beautiful in their own way. If only stereotypes were not so prevalent in our sometimes shallow culture.
I think there is a lot of jealousy, but blondes don't help themselves, to be liked by other women. I observed a lot the behavior of the blondes, and they seem to be very "attention seeking" and some of them act very dumb, because they know that men like them and they become Narcissistic. Not all, but many are like this. I often see douchebags guys with ugly blondes, or very average beauty blondes. Maybe they want to be seen with blondes, by others guys, as a woman trophy, even if she have not a beautiful face or have no breast. I often noticed this phenomenon. Some blonds are very beautiful, but many trues europeans blonds are very tall, with big bones and masculines faces. They seem to have no eyebrows, and without make-up, it's very ugly. I don't understand why men like that, but I'm not a man, and can't say to the men what they should like.
I wish I could make some kind of sense as to what Mr. Zuhail is trying to say. Imo, everyone is an aspiring blonde. For whatever reason, most girls that don't have blonde hair, are jealous of blondes. This is mainly due to the fact that most guys are attracted to blondes, so they get more attention which makes the other girls jealous. This is also the main reason why non blondes dye their hair blonde.
I am a blonde Puerto Rican woman.... Been blonde since birth. I do think that brunettes are intimidated by blondes for what reason they are countless. What really bothers me are the blondes that give other blondes bad names. Not all blondes are airheads , slutbags, ditzy , trashy or whatever other name they would like to give us.. Fact is ..brunettes can also be these things.. As a matter of fact they are the bleached blondes giving real blondes a bad name. So as a beautiful , intelligent , respectable NATURALLY BLONDE woman ... BRUNETTES....PLEEEEEASE STOP STEREOTYPING!!!!
Everyone person has some kind of attraction. Blonde girls have their attraction in their hair. You can't say that which person would going to like which thing but the thing which is beautiful is liked by everyone.
