Well Am 15,n Having A Beautiful Relationship With My Boyfriend Since 1year,we Have Sex..but He's Spam Comes Out Very Quickly Like With In 30sec Or Sometimes 1 Mint..but Not More Then That..am Not Satisfied With The Sex We Both Have,please Help?

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paul gibbons Profile
paul gibbons answered
I think your boyfriend needs to go straight to the doctor if he has spam coming out of him at any speed
candace barnthouse Profile
Sometimes when guys first start having sex regularly they can't help but to get off quickly, later on they can learn to not get off as quickly and they can control it a lot better....just talk to him about it, and if he really cares he will try to make it better for you and try to control it.. But if he can't at first thats fine, & like they said if its always a problem, when you have enough love  for someone it doesnt really matter at ALL
Pat Ales Profile
Pat Ales answered
While I agree you may be too young to be having sex, risking pregancy, & having a baby , the point is moot... You already ARE having sex. Hopefully it is protected sex or safe sex. Others are saying to try sex toys, or more foreplay,  Either way boys/young men tend to ejaculate ast fwhen their sexual excitement reaches a peak..for him it;s happening extremely fast. Maybe take it slow...there are topical anesthetic creams you can buy that lessened sensitivity and reduce sexual pleasure  or condoms that are treated with this medication so he doesn't ejaculate as fast.  Whatever you choose, PLEASE practice protected sex... It feels good,,,, but you don't want to have a baby now when you have your whole future to plan...college... Future career....trips & social events with your friends,,,,getting your own apartment... So much to look forward to...Good luck
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Theodore Putnam
Theodore Putnam commented
SAVE INTAMACY TILL MARRAGE!! Forgive me for calling you this, but risking that at your age is bieng an idiot.
brianna rollins Profile
brianna rollins answered
You might enjoy it while it lasts but honey if your in love with that guy then of coarse your going to like it, it don't matter how long it lasts it just matters on who its with.
mattison belcher Profile
Get a viberater and tell him to go long and hard and tell him nice work with the sperm and tell him to keep practicing :) "don't stop get it get it " you go gurl :V
armando morales Profile
armando morales answered
Well like brianna said it doesn't matter as long as you love the guy but while you have sex you can try and communicate with each other or talk about it before doing it...it can also be that you both have sex often.But the fact of the matter would be for both of you to communicate
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Well...You are just 15 years old...So that is not a perfect Age to get satisfaction of sex life. One thing yu didn\'t describe is the age of your boy friends. Ok I am giving the solution of your problem. You can try Viagra to avoid this problem.
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Kiara Harris Profile
Kiara Harris answered
I wasn't aware that guys could ejaculate tinned meat O.o

but lol its normal at first for it to be quick
soon enough it will lengthen to half hour or more :)
Kate law Profile
Kate law answered
You should be happy he's coming, it means that he's excited about you, just keep trying and you will soon like it bbe xx
rachel macpherson Profile
He can get help from online doctors for premature ejaculation he will have to answer some questions about his health and the problem and a qualified doctor will look at it the same day and email him and then he goes back in to the website and buys the medication for his condition which is expensive or he could go to his own doctor
you are too young to be having sex but a lot of young people dothe same thing I know I did hope all gets better for you . You could also try more foreplay and sex toys might help  web site for docto is secure.theonlineclinic.co.uk/Login.aspx
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Well...You are too small to having sex relationship.I am suggesting you to avoid this kinda thing. And if you are not going to avoid this thing then try to use some sex toys. It can be nice.

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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
To be honest your really to young to be having sex. And for a boy that young he will ejaculate fast 1 you having a tight vagina.
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Anonymous answered
Well not all guys are long distance runners when it comes to sex but anything under 10 mins is Truly Pathetic!..I feel so bad for you.  I remember being your age (13 yrs ago) and losing my virginity for the first time..Even then I think I lasted a good 30+ minutes because I remember both of us being sweaty as hell and out of breath.( I grew up in Hawaii )  If you like the guy then give him another shot or two.  If hes still ejaculating prematurely...then your screwed.

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