Yo Kass answered
Conventionally, having two girlfriends is not acceptable. Although certain religions and belief systems may condone polygamy (having multiple wives), you'd be hard-pressed to find any group that supports the idea of dating two girls at the same time.
Having two girlfriends- why it's a bad idea
Essentially, whether having two girlfriends is right or wrong will come down to what you and the girls involved want from a relationship.
If all three of you are only interested in a casual relationship, then I can't see how any harm can come from dating two girls.
If, on the other hand, the girls are unaware of each other or are unaware that you are dating other women at the same time, the reasons why this is a bad idea are as follows:
Why having two girlfriends is a good idea Despite all the social and moral qualms that might be the basis for objections, there are those who argue that having two girlfriends is a great idea!
I agree that having two love-interests means you're less likely to get bored by spending your time with just one woman. It also means that sex is likely to be more abundant.
If that sounds like a situation you'd be happy with, and if you're confident no-one will get hurt along the way, then I guess having two girlfriends might not be all that bad.
Having two girlfriends- why it's a bad idea
Essentially, whether having two girlfriends is right or wrong will come down to what you and the girls involved want from a relationship.
If all three of you are only interested in a casual relationship, then I can't see how any harm can come from dating two girls.
If, on the other hand, the girls are unaware of each other or are unaware that you are dating other women at the same time, the reasons why this is a bad idea are as follows:
- It is disrespectful
- The situation is likely to cause anger and resentment
- Jealousy issues will arise
- You will be unable to pay each girl as much attention as they need individually, resulting in two poor relationships rather than one fulfilling one.
- There is a higher risk of sexually transmitted infection if you are regularly sleeping with more than one partner
- There is a greater chance of having an unwanted pregnancy
Why having two girlfriends is a good idea Despite all the social and moral qualms that might be the basis for objections, there are those who argue that having two girlfriends is a great idea!
I agree that having two love-interests means you're less likely to get bored by spending your time with just one woman. It also means that sex is likely to be more abundant.
If that sounds like a situation you'd be happy with, and if you're confident no-one will get hurt along the way, then I guess having two girlfriends might not be all that bad.
